Thankfully even though my wife and I were separated for 16 months, and she said she was getting a divorce and had an attorney, she never filed any papers.
I had told her that because Scripture said, "Let no man put asunder what God has joined together", I could not in good conscience sign a voluntary dissolution. This meant that she would have to file and prosecute for divorce whatever the cost to both of us, if she absolutely wanted to end our marriage.
Is there anyone reading this blog who has personally allowed, or professionally observed, someone who has allowed their spouse to pursue them all of the way through the court system so that the judge was actually the one to end the marriage against the wishes of one party?
What was the end result and what were your observations?