If you are in a marriage crisis situation now, I am so sorry for your pain and fear.
If you came here looking for help and hope I would suggest first looking under my EmergencyLinks on the right sidebar.
I have been starting to review my posts and labeling those that seem to be most fitting for those who are in a crises or emergency in their marriage.
Just click on the label Emergency at the bottom and Google will pull up those posts.
If you page down through the older Emergency posts you will find alot of our testimony.